As I said before in my blog as an adoptee my personal belief is that open would be better in adoption. I have to keep an open mind about why people do closed ones as well. I started this blog to help others as well as heal myself. I have already learned so much about birth mothers and adoptees in general. I have to keep an open mind even though I still have the pain from my adoption. I have family members that have had opened and closed adoptions. They are the birth mothers so I have learned so much through them. If you have a story to tell please feel free to share a blog on my site or write your story.