Good Friday happens to be the day that I came to live with my adopted family. I think of this day as my birthday. My actual birth date is December 11th. I really have never liked my birthday. I would rather not celebrate it however my husband is big on celebrating every birthday to the fullest! I pretend that Good Friday is my birthday when it comes around each year. I feel like December 11th was not a good day for those involved. I did not know how other adoptees felt about this topic until I started researching it.