We need more adoption and less abortion! Finally someone gets it higher up the chain!


2022 goals in adoption

We need to change the laws in every state so an adoptee at the age of 18 is able to get their adoption records without a fight in court! It is every person’s right to know who their biological family is. As an adoptive it was not my choice to be given up to anotherContinue reading “2022 goals in adoption”

The Art of Dismissing the Adoptee’s Voice…

A post from a long time ago, one that I reposted in 2015 and that’s the post you’ll see linked below. I dug it up because a conversation happened on … The Art of Dismissing the Adoptee’s Voice…

Please Be Mindful — Missing Mom

Please be mindful of what you say about an adoptee’s birth parents and extended birth family – regardless the circumstances or how you personally feel. Remember that this person shares genes and inheritable aspects with that family of origin. From an adoptee – As a child I internalized the messages about how I was so […]Continue reading “Please Be Mindful — Missing Mom”

Adoption and the birth certificate

https://wordpress.com/read/feeds/118482652/posts/3483139961 The birth certificate….. The birth certificate is one of the biggest topics of adoptees. Adopted parents do NOT take offense to your child being disappointed that you are listed on their second birth certificate. I would think that I am speaking for almost all of adoptees when I say we think these are fakeContinue reading “Adoption and the birth certificate”

My nerves are shot

My husband found out that he has another sister a few years back. His father already had passed. His sister found out through ancestors.com. We met up with her her husband and her youngest son Bryan a couple years ago. Bryan just passed away a couple days ago at the age of 18. We onlyContinue reading “My nerves are shot”

The Medical Questions — The Adoption Files

I just want my medical history? Maybe some pictures, so I know who I look like? But, mostly, medical history? Why does each sentence sound like a question? Because I am scared and I don’t want you to ghost me? Because our culture informs me that medical history is the only acceptable part of my […]Continue reading “The Medical Questions — The Adoption Files”

True life adoption stories of those close to me…..why I think open adoptions are necessary

When I first found my biological mother and family my sister shared a secret in her life. Remember I just met my sister. The secret that she felt she could tell me was that she too had put a child up for adoption. I was very glad that she could share this with her siblingContinue reading “True life adoption stories of those close to me…..why I think open adoptions are necessary”

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