Please Be Mindful — Missing Mom

Please be mindful of what you say about an adoptee’s birth parents and extended birth family – regardless the circumstances or how you personally feel. Remember that this person shares genes and inheritable aspects with that family of origin. From an adoptee – As a child I internalized the messages about how I was so […]Continue reading “Please Be Mindful — Missing Mom”

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Poverty Is Not A Good Reason — Missing Mom

The question was asked – Should poverty be a reason to remove children from their families? Let’s be clear – the stipends the families get to care for children that are not their own biological offspring are more than large enough to help take the child’s original, natural family get out of poverty. This is […]Continue reading “Poverty Is Not A Good Reason — Missing Mom”

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Stop playing the victim in adoption

Too many times in adoption family members other than the adoptee want to play the victim. I can see some family members that missed out on the adoptees’ life because they did not know that they had a family member adopted out. For those of you, that knew the mother gave her child up forContinue reading “Stop playing the victim in adoption”

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Next Steps — The Adoption Files

“I just received my non identifying information. What do I do next?” What do you want to do? I was not asked what I wanted to do. I was asked Why I wanted to do anything at all. I was asked why finding my family mattered at all. I believe most of us have heard […]Continue reading “Next Steps — The Adoption Files”

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LGBT adoption

I am doing research on this but I am 100% against it. I believe what the bible says about homosexuality. I also believe that kids need a male and female figure in their lives. This is why kids struggle with one parent. I am a christian so I know God loves all individuals. He createdContinue reading “LGBT adoption”

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Mental health today 2021

men·tal health Learn to pronounce nounnoun: mental health a person’s condition with regard to their psychological and emotional well-being.”all this pressure seems to be affecting his mental health” Translate mental health to Definitions from Oxford Languages https://www.veteranscrisisline.net/ Mental health is very real. Do NOT turn your head from it. Learn how to look for signsContinue reading “Mental health today 2021”

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Child abuse; How to recognize and report it.

https://adoption.umn.edu/physical-sexual-emotional-abuse-and-neglect How do I report suspected child abuse or neglect?  State Child Abuse and Neglect Reporting NumbersContact your local child protective services office or law enforcement agency. Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline(opens in new window)Call or text 1.800.4.A.CHILD (1.800.422.4453). Professional crisis counselors are available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, in over 170Continue reading “Child abuse; How to recognize and report it.”

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What biological parents should know in adoption

When putting your child up for adoption please let the adopted parents know the honest details of why you are putting your child up for adoption. I would highly suggest writing a letter to your child from you explaining things to them. I think open adoption is the best for the child but the truthContinue reading “What biological parents should know in adoption”

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What biological parents should know in adoption

When putting your child up for adoption please let the adopted parents know the honest details of why you are putting your child up for adoption. I would highly suggest writing a letter to your child from you explaining things to them. I think open adoption is the best for the child but the truthContinue reading “What biological parents should know in adoption”

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